Feast or Fast: When Valentine’s Day and Ash Wednesday Coincide

STROUDSBURG -- Catholics are about to observe a combination of holidays they haven't seen in 73 years. Both Ash Wednesday and Valentine's Day are next Wednesday.

Ash Wednesday is one of the holiest days of the year for Catholics. On that day, they eat just one full meal and no meat. Some have asked if there will be an exception made this year.

Ann Marie Carney hasn't made Valentine's Day plans yet.

"Maybe my husband has something up his sleeve. I'm not sure."

Whatever happens, Ann Marie is sure of two things: her plans won't involve eating meat or tasting chocolate because Valentine's Day falls on Ash Wednesday this year.

"Ash Wednesday reminds us of what we're born out of. We were born out of dust and we will return to dust when we go back to our heavenly father," Nancy Gabana said.

It's rare that these observances fall at the same time. The last time this happened was 1945.

To mark the start of Lent on Ash Wednesday, Catholics abstain from meat and eat only one full meal. Sometimes the church makes exceptions when fasting days coincide with other celebrations. However, there will be no exception for this.

"I think it's difficult for some people, but for me, I think all the Lord's sufferings that He did for us, that it's just a minor sacrifice that we could do for Him to fast for that day," Gabana said.

Parishioners told us they think Valentine's Day is actually a great day to start Lent.

"It's a day where everybody celebrates love and we love Jesus and we're going to go with Him through the season, so it's a great start," Carney said.

Plus, they can enjoy a romantic night out any day.

"I told my husband we're going to do Valentine's Day on the 13th and have our chocolate then because I love chocolate," said Gabana.

A spokesperson for the Diocese of Allentown said he hasn't heard of anyone having an issue with the unusual timing.


  • Wowzers

    It’s all dumb, and makes you sound like a loon, but abstaining from meat is the one good thing religion can do to a person.

    • Roflmao

      Just think all this silliness started when some pregnant bronze aged slut talked her way of a proper stoning! Millions of dead people later your still at it! Now that’s funny!!


    Rember folks! The people who first taught you about religion, also told you that santa clause and the easter bunny were real too!

    • Roflmao

      And then after all that, finding out some decades later it pays more not to go to work!
      Makes me want to go punch my parents! Would that get me stoned? I mean with rocks, not ….you know.

  • 😊

    Fasting is fine as long as you do it for the right reason not just because your “religion” says that’s what you’re supposed to do. Fasting is a way to get closer to God .

  • cary anders

    Every Catholic was given a exception to eat meat by the Bishop on St Patrick’s day I remember. St Patrick is more important then Jesus but St Valentine isn’t, OK got it, hard to keep track these days

  • Roy

    Nowhere in the New Testament will you find lent or abstaining of certain foods (meat). So long as we give thanks for it, we can eat what we desire. The Bible only needs to be the guide that we follow for life. We can all read it and understand it. BIble passages I suggest be read. 2 Peter 1:3 KJV, 1 Timothy 4:1-16 ESV, (note verse 4), 1 Corinthians 10:31. You can google these verses to read them.

    • Roy

      I do want to clarify so no confusion here. In the New Testament, fasting is taught. However it is something personal between a person and his God. Not dictated by any church or person or clergy. We are to use the Bible alone as our guide to faith and practice. Once again before you make a choice to what you desire to do in this regards, READ the Bible verses I suggested. Christ is the mediator between God and man, the Bible very clearly teaches. We let Christ be our authority of all matters pertaining to our faith.

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